I've been a mom for over ten years now and we've never had any real 'emergencies' with our kids (minus all of Carter's breathing issues with his asthma/allergies). That all changed, last week, when the kids were all doing cartwheels and flips in the front yard and Abram landed on a broken glass bottle top and sliced open the bottom of his right foot.
{On the way to the E.R.}
One of the kids had broken the bottle a long time ago and thought they had picked it all up - but the extremely sharp top portion was hidden in the grass.
It was a good 1/2- to 1-inch long gash and probably needed a couple of stitches or so. But it happened late in the day and I decided to wait until morning to see how it was. I also wanted to avoid the E.R./hospital if we could, so I wasn't in a hurry to bring him in. And in all honesty, I'm not a 'panicker' when it comes to injuries. I take a more 'relaxed' stance to it all - preferring the 'wait and see' approach to the 'every injury is an emergency and needs medical attention' one. But, by the next day, I thought maybe we should have brought him in when it split open again - but it was too late as it was already healing.
So, I bandaged it up well and made sure he took it easy on the couch for a few days. It didn't need to be 'butterflied' with tape because of the way it was cut so a bandage worked just fine. He crawled around the house for the first few days and then became more mobile by hopping on one foot and now he's to the point where he's walking (and even running) with just a slight limp. The cut has been healing really well. He may have a little scar but nothing to worry about!
{Carter, in the E.R. acting a little shy as the nurse was talking to him.}
Then Sunday after church everyone was changing out of their church clothes and Carter jumped on a pile of blankets in the Sitting Room and we all heard a 'crack' sound. We looked up to find him bawling and holding his head with blood going everywhere.
Apparently, the blankets were partially draped over the elliptical machine and he'd whacked his head full-force on the corner of the foot support. He split open his head a good 2-inches and although it wasn't too deep, we knew right away that stitches were inevitable this time. No question about it.
So we got him cleaned up. Mind you, he was only in his underwear at the moment! And I was just about finished nursing Aria.
Since it was his head, there was blood everywhere - and, luckily, blood doesn't scare any of our kids, they've watched chickens getting butchered and they've seen goats being born - so Nikayda and Abram helped to wash up the floor and wipe off Carter's legs while I finished nursing, as Mark held a cloth over the cut. Then I helped him to get dressed and we headed to the ER for the first time with one of our kids, 20 minutes away, where we spent the next 2 hours waiting for a doctor to see us. (2 hours, I kid you not.) He was fine the entire time, and his head wasn't bothering him at all. Thankfully. But the wait was extreme (and probably because we live in such a rural area). I kind of anticipated that it would be a long since we'd been there before (for my hyperemesis gravidarum last fall) so I grabbed some snacks for everyone. But we never dreamt it would be well over two hours before we'd be seen and released and everyone was pretty hungry by the time we left since we hadn't had the opportunity to eat lunch before it happened.
The nurses and doctor were great. The doc. had such a laid back personality, with a long ponytail to go with, and he was great with Carter. The best part was, when he went to go to put staples in Carter's head after he'd numbed it with a few shots (the worst part for Carter since it stung), he had the stapler upside down and stapled his own hand! Poor guy! But he was a great sport and had a good sense of humor about it all. And after leaving the room to have a nurse help remove the staple from his hand and to get a new stapler, he came back and we were all laughing that he'd numbed the wrong person.
{Above, Taken today, his cut just looks like a dark spot now as it's healing.}
As he went to use the new stapler, I was standing there watching the entire procedure and noticed he had the stapler upside down again. I didn't say anything, hoping he'd figure it out since he was the doctor, after all - and it took him several long seconds of holding it over the wound before he realized it was upside down again! In his defense, we all agreed that the stapler was odd because the (improper) way he was holding it, was how it looked like it should go. Doctors are only humans, too, and this was a great reminder of that! We all can make mistakes from time to time.
In the end, he figured it out and put 7 tiny metal staples into the top of our son's head. The next day, Carter was telling me that he counted his staples and said, "It doesn't even feel like I have any staples in!"
So, he's bounced back real well. I was wondering if he'd have a headache or something today but so far he's doing just fine.
We'll take it. Just a couple of little bumps in the road. I don't like when my kids get hurt. Who does? But I've been finding the humor in two injuries like this happening to us within a week when we've never had anything like it before.
{I think she's going to be a blankie girl. She loves to hold her flannel blankets (usually over her face) while she's falling asleep.}
I'm completely fascinated by health. Especially the natural way of healing the body and becoming healthy. But I'm also fascinated by modern medicine as far as it pertains to emergencies. I disagree with a lot of things as far as modern medicine goes, but it's there for a reason, too, and we're very grateful for it when we need it. I watched the entire procedure with Carter - the only part that was difficult to watch was when the doctor did multiple shots in and around the cut. And the stapling was a little crazy, for me to watch, as well. But I did. The best way to face a fear is head on - so I watched it all.
P.S. I have better pictures of his wound - but no one wants to see bloody wounds, so I'll spare you the details of those photos! :)